CurvyKitty

You hear the phrase "Spice Things Up" when there's a commercial about how your sex life has gone stale. An either you cringe because it has in fact has gone stale, you gloat because your having the best sex of your life or you think your sex life is too normal.

Of course you shouldnt ever sell yourself short to the masses of just the "kits" and books that can kindle things back to life because what your missing is also intmacy. An there is no one that would know better than you how you and your partner work.

But for me and my boyfriend something worked awesome that I didn't think would. Since me an my boyfriend are competitive, I had an idea that maybe we should make a competition out of sex. Not in a bad way though, but in a way that benefitted both of us....in a really big way.

So I proposed that we should see how many times we could get the other to "release", and at the end of the day...add them all up and the winner would get a super happy ending through uh....a super happy ending, lol.

Worked like a charm, but the only difference was, we were both so worn out by the end of the day that we didn't care about the prize. We had already won a bunch of "points".

So as far as spicing things up goes for two overworked people who are a bit competitive, the idea worked. And if your the same way...or maybe just a little competitive, I think you should give it a try even if your love life isn't stale. It will still be a day to remember.

Ideas for tulle curvy inspiration.

You know someday's there is just the feeling of complete poo. Life has sucked the sexy out of your beautiful curves and all that is left is this blob. Yes I said it, blob. We've all had those days. Girls who are trying to be feminist and curvy proudly flaunt there endless bounty of curves and act like they have never had a crap day. Well I'm here to call bullshit if you ever felt like you were ever not up to the task of fighting societies view of "the right kind" of beautiful, there are just someday's when curves gotta give.

Your hair may not look right. Your booties popin' out of those leggings and skirt combo. Your boyfriend just happens to forget to tell your that your hot that day. I get it. Instead of a bad hair day....its a bad curve day. And all the twiggys are out in crop tops.

Now don't get me wrong I have no prejudice against skinny girls whatsoever. Whether your genes are awesome, your a work out queen, or you've just been blessed with a high metabolism....being skinny is just like being black to me. Its just another color under the sun, that has to do with size.

Unfortunately my boyfriend has been working his butt off doing 13 hour shifts, and I've been doing online courses full time....so that doesn't leave a whole lot of room for other than sit on the couch with your laptop, books and text time.

An comon I'm not a total loser, I'll youtube pilates and do the 6 minute intense ab workout....and then die bending over to feed the dogs. But as far as workin it out, has not been so much. Which is what needs to happen in order to burn baby burn. 20 minute pilates work outs works pretty well, and then whether or not I feel like a blob...I feel like a sweaty beast who just killed like 2000 calories.

I've tried counting calories and it sucks. I've downloaded the app on my phone (god knows how many apps are actually out there) and made a food diary. An man I just felt like a fatty after doing that, good god. But I also realized that it was normal how much I ate, and the fact of the matter was I needed to actually exercise. Damn.

So I've decided I'm going to really make a go of it. Fuck this feelin like a blob feeling, even if I'm having a bad curve day at least I will have worked out like a beast and KNOW for a fact that am not just a blob. I'm a goddamn curvy woman whos got it goin on. :D

For all your girls (...and possibly guys) if your having a bad curve day I feel yous. All of your feel bads can come right over here an find a place to sit down an talk it out because I know exactly how you feel. And oh yeah just remember....your motherfuckin hot! You and all your "bountiful curves", lol.

The definition bountiful curves....haha. No bad curve days for that chick. Who says you cant be plus sized and ripped?!

If you guys haven't seen my other place I write, its called hubpages.com and I used to write quite frequently on there. I wrote a blog on Ashley Graham who is an awesome plus size model, and thought that if you needed some inspiration....she would definitely be it.

http://kattadellic.hubpages.com/hub/Featured-Curvilcious-Woman-Ashley-Graham

I've been searching for the right combo of over-sized shirts with leggings or jeans, and it seems I've stumbled across a lot of different styles on this stormy day. I've kind of been in a slump lately, my work is scarce right now and the homework keeps piling on since its the end of the semester, so to cheer myself up I listen to music, dance, look at fashion and watch episode after episode of Leverage which I just discovered on Netflix. Yep, its a low key kind of day. And I think I deserve it, since I just got a day off that I actually didn't have any immediate homework due. Wootage!

The last of it :)

I love fall! And all of the possibilities it brings with it, screw spring who needs it when you have the golden look?

This is what I did for my interview today, I swept my eyelids with a dash of bronze while keeping it classic with black eyeliner reaching up and out towards my brow line. I used clinique double face powder and some sunkissed bronzer across the tops of my cheekbones. So that the minerals could catch the light and give me a glowy look. And I put my wavy /curly stands in a low pony tail and let my bangs keep there side swept appeal. Works for a low key, neutral but still a luminous look.

I guess it worked because I got the job! :D

Kind of looks like I'm naked here doesn't it? Maybe I am...

Gotcha! No nakie....haha you wish :P

Makeup credit goes to: Mayebelline Sunkissed Bronzer/Mayebelline Eyestudio gel liner/ Clinique Sugared Maple lipsitck/Clinique Double Face Powder/ Clinique Eyeshadow Lucky Penny.

=^.^= Kat

This is my sugar skull girl face for Halloween! Finally got it up here and I'm kinda proud of it, even though I fee like I botched it a bunch. I did have fake long lashes on, but they kept coming off and with much effort I might have gotten eyelash glue in my eyeball. So don't hate on my non-lashes, I cried for them....literally :P. The rest are pictures of my friends and I dancing at 6 am, after drinking about 75 jello shots and whatever else there was in the house. Needless to say we were having fun....hope you guys had an awesome Hallows Eve.