You hear the phrase "Spice Things Up" when there's a commercial about how your sex life has gone stale. An either you cringe because it has in fact has gone stale, you gloat because your having the best sex of your life or you think your sex life is too normal.

Of course you shouldnt ever sell yourself short to the masses of just the "kits" and books that can kindle things back to life because what your missing is also intmacy. An there is no one that would know better than you how you and your partner work.

But for me and my boyfriend something worked awesome that I didn't think would. Since me an my boyfriend are competitive,  I had an idea that maybe we should make a competition out of sex.  Not in a bad way though, but in a way that benefitted both of us....in a really big way.

So I proposed that we should see how many times we could get the other to "release", and at the end of the day...add them all up and the winner would get a super happy ending through uh....a super happy ending, lol.

Worked like a charm, but the only difference was, we were both so worn out by the end of the day that we didn't care about the prize. We had already won a bunch of "points".

So as far as spicing things up goes for two overworked people who are a bit competitive, the idea worked. And if your the same way...or maybe just a little competitive, I think you should give it a try even if your love life isn't stale. It will still be a day to remember.